Same Fight Different Day

You’re not trying to start a fight.

You answer a question, make a comment, say something simple… and somehow it still escalates. Now she’s shut down or coming at you, and you’re left wondering how it flipped that fast.

Same fight. Different day.

It’s frustrating—because it feels like you’re doing it right. But what most men don’t see is this: it didn’t start in that moment.

There’s something underneath driving how both of you react… before either of you says a word.

In this week’s The Strongest Move, I break down what’s really happening in those moments—and how to stop reacting and start leading what happens next.